Upon deciding to leave our home and life style, we moved in with my mom. As I mentioned earlier we had a plan, we just didn't follow it. Instead we settled in, put kids in school, and took a look at our finances; deciding we were in big trouble. We were never going to recover. Depression settled in.
Don't let this happen to you. If you allow it to you will fail. Instead get up and just do it. If it is wrong, so what.
At this time hubby was working a job he hated, but he was working. I was on unemployment and should have gotten ut there and gotten a job. I "tried" but the lure of staying home was too great. Plus we took a paper route and I did the route most of the time. It became easy to not have (another) job.
So then the pressure became too great and I got a series of jobs that really sucked. Clerk in convenience store, receptionist in a family owned screen printing business, and finally telemarketer. All of these paid a decent wage but nothing great, all of them I walked away from with a clear desire to never do that job again. One of them I was let go from because I didn't niche with the employees. What? That was a crushing blow.
Working is an important task. It keeps you out there. Bad jobs keep you motivated to get a better job.
Solution: Hubs stayed at crappy job until he found less crappy job and finally job he likes. I took a position with a bank until it sucked and moved on to a job a can stand until a better one comes along.
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